Our goal is to build a casual sex dating site that isn’t filled with 1000’s of fake profiles that are really just nothing more than ads designed to sucker you into buying expensive memberships or other services.
Have you ever responded to some “casual encounters” ads on the popular online classifieds only to get multiple emails from “different” people with the same photo? Or worse yet – the “same” person emails you different pics? And I don’t mean different hair color, a few pounds different, I mean “hmmm in her last email she was Asian” different. After a few emails they always seem to want you to validate that you’re a real person by using some “3rd party” service that you have to PAY for. I mean you COULD just call or Skype each other… that would be almost free, but for some reason these people always want to us a service that cost five or ten bucks. Hmmmm…
How about signing up for the free membership at a hookup site & then receiving 3 emails a day saying “someone wants to meet you” for an entire week, but when you finally break down one horny afternoon and pay serious money for the premium plan that lets you contact everybody… suddenly nobody is interested in you! Did you get uglier overnight? Probably not. There were never any real humans behind those contacts anyway
It seems to us that if there is enough interest in sex dating to support hundreds of ripoff & scam sites that there must be enough people in the world who would be interested in a REAL hookup website. So we’re going to build one!
This will require some research though. I’m going to try every site I can find & tell you about it here. Keep in mind – I’m doing competitive research (and maybe occasionally trying to get laid) but I’ll include links to other reviews from supposedly less biased people. Often when I find a positive review it’s filled with affiliate links, so I’m a bit skeptical, but there are some real reviews out there.
While we are on that topic… the banner ads on this site are link exchanges and for most of them we do not even know the advertiser. We may include affiliate links for the sites we find that we would actually use, but we’ll be totally upfront about it – if it’s linked it’s because we like it.
If you know of a hookup site or App that you feel is legit then please feel free to comment on this post & let us know. I’ll definitely try it and tell you what I think.
So let’s get to it! I’ll start with the ones I know…
ashleymadison.com – Oh lord it’s expensive. Using it could cost as much as Chemistry & the other LTR dating sites. $50 month to find my soul mate might be worth it, but Ashley Madison is for people looking to step out on their spouses. Chances are you won’t be finding lifelong mates here so I’m not sure it’s worth the money. The minimum amount you can spend is $49 for 100 “credits” and they go pretty fast… I’m going to use that $49 to test several other sites first & then maybe come back to Ashley. So far though my free registration gets a couple emails a day wanting to chat with me – as soon as I pony up that $$ I’m sure to hookup right away!
- Only for having affairs – if you’re not interested in sleeping with somebody else’s other half then this isn’t the site for you.
- Not sure there are any yet. It’s supposed to be the largest affair site so I may have to do more research.
Leave a comment & let us know what you think of them…
sdc.com – it’s the real deal, but it’s more of a community than a hookup site. They do have a “speed dating” system for that though. I’ve met other members. I’ve been to a couple of the places they have meetups. It’s a real community for swingers. These people do meet up and they do hookup. Thing is though – it’s for swingers. Usually that means couples. Single females seem to be pretty welcome. Single guys… not so much. If you’re bisexual though you can probably easily find some new friends. (the benefits of being Bi I guess)
- Swing site – people looking for one on one dating & single males will have much fewer options.
- Swing site – these people are really into it J they have parties & cruises & all kinds of sexy fun. I love the site & therefore will link to it!
If you have ever tried sdc.com then please tell us about it!
I don’t remember ever getting any fake “member wants you” spam from them & there doesn’t seem to be any reason for others to create fake profiles.
craigslist.com – HA! Really? I’ve answered ads, I’ve posted ads… I haven’t found a real human yet. I’ll try again when I have some time to waste, but for now read what someone else has to say about it:
7 Days on Craigslist’s Casual Encounters
Has ANYONE ever had a positive experience using these classifieds? if so PLEASE tell us about it!
backpage.com – they have a dating section AND they have an adult section, yet all of the ads in dating look just like adult ads to me.
- if you don’t get arrested or caught up in some kind of scam you’ll probably be able to purchase an orgasm.
- One of the bodyrub girls actually gave a half decent massage & it was cheaper than the local spa
adultfriendfinder.com – I was on AFF for a short time 10 years ago. Back then it seemed pretty good. I talked to a number of actual humans & hooked up a couple of times so it was my first stop after my seperation. Even 10 years ago it was a little expensive, but I actually got laid so it seemed worth it. These days it can be as cheap as $9.95 if you’re willing to pay for a year upfront, or as much as $29.95 monthly otherwise.
Sadly I have to report it’s no longer the same There are still many real profiles as it’s one of the largest sites out there, but there are definitely a LOT more fakes.